



My answer was "absolutely not, you've already proven yourself to be an honorable individual and deserve to be happy in a new relationship." All their kids are grown and have left the roost now so maybe they'll feel more comfortable with it. They both have asked me if I would feel slighted if at sometime down the road they met another lady and wanted to remarry. Since then, two of my daughters have succumbed to cancer, but their husbands remain in a very close relationship with me and their mother. After a few years, my daughter remarried and the new hubby approached me in the same manner the other three did. later, he and one of their daughters were killed in a car accident(his fault). He was the last word on anything you wanted to discuss.a legend in his own mind and I wanted nothing to do with him. That fourth SIL turned out to be an SOB, and a very ignorant one at that. Only one of the four sons-in-law didn't come to me and ask for permission to marry the daughter they were dating. As a final note on this post, I refer to my four daughter and their husbands.
